‘How to Get What You Want Sooner’ by Michael Newman
Michael Newman’s latest e-Wealth Daily’ article is titled “How to Get What You Want Sooner”. [e-Wealth Daily’Article]
Michael Newman’s latest e-Wealth Daily’article:
How to Get What You Want Sooner
On Monday, I began discussing some of the things you can add to your job search to increase the chances of success. Today, I’ll cover a few more areas to consider.
Sometimes, there are forces at play that can hold you back from getting the job you want. The key, however, is to learn how you can work around them to get to where you need to go.
Perhaps there are certain people in your life who attack your confidence and hold you back from realizing your true potential. Perhaps they degrade you and say that the things you
want are impossible and that you should settle for something else. This can be very draining on you and really have a huge impact on your ability to be successful.
In these situations, there are a few things you can do. The first is to ignore the person. Limit the time you see them and, when they try to get on your case, simply ignore them and change the subject. Maybe even ask them why they feel the need to give you such a hard time for trying to get on with your life.
Next, you could take their harsh words and use them as motivation to become more focused on your goals. By letting them help drive you, you may elevate your search and, therefore, find success faster. For some reason, there is no greater feeling than proving our naysayers wrong.
Finally, if it’s possible, try to end your relationship with the person. If it’s a casual friendship or acquaintance, simply stop hanging around with them. You’ll probably be better off in the long run anyway.
Sometimes we need a little bit of extra motivation to ensure we do the things we need to do. A great way to get a little extra reinforcement is to provide some consequences. The consequences you give yourself should be some minor inconveniences that actually benefit you somehow.
For example, let’s say you wanted to contact five people about a job today, follow up with two places you sent your resume and continue to work towards one of your shorter-term goals. If
you failed to meet these expectations, then you must face the consequence. The consequence could be something like going for a 30-minute run, reviewing your plans or reading a chapter of a book. Whatever it is, it’s something that you don’t necessarily want to do, but that will help you along the way.
Try not to get hung up on the past. Don’t think of your previous job as your “dream job,” because it is in the past. You need to be forward thinking and realize that you’re still building the success story of your life, and it still hasn’t reached its pinnacle. Get out there and find your real dream job!
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